“I wish to go to college.”
Kahla , age 18
Illinois Chapter

   
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Since Kahla, 18, was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, she has endured a total knee replacement, three lung surgeries, chemotherapy and numerous other medical procedures. During her recovery, she made a wish that will impact the rest of her life: She asked wish granters for a scholarship that would allow her to attend Columbia College Chicago. She is scheduled to start college in January of 2011 after finishing physical therapy. These are Kahla’s thoughts about overcoming cancer, the importance of family and the Make-A-Wish® experience.

How did your life change when you were diagnosed with cancer?

When you first start out on chemo, about 99.9 percent of the time you feel nauseous. There’s no getting around it. You’re going to be bored. My parents, the doctors, the nurses – they helped me deal with it emotionally. They gave me the medical attention I needed, but they also helped me mentally. They make you feel so comfortable and at home and at ease. They take time to explain – you’ll lose your hair, your eyebrows, your eyelashes. They explain everything to you, especially when you start out so you won’t be so scared.

What was it like being away from school and your friends?

It was really difficult for me to adjust to being in the hospital – and not being in school. My teachers worked with me. They sent tutors. They’d bring my homework or my teachers would e-mail it to me. Sometimes it was hard to keep up. But they were flexible – they knew what my circumstances were. I was picky about visits from friends. I didn’t want them to visit me when I was feeling bad. I didn’t want them to be concerned instead of enjoying our time together. I’d rather see them when I was at home or go out with them, even if I was on crutches. Throughout chemo, no matter what, nail polish and shopping would always make me feel better. I don’t know what it is about nail polish and shopping, but those two things always made me feel better!

How did you decide on a scholarship as your wish?

When I got to make my wish, everyone tried to give me insights – like “think about things you’d never have a chance to do again.” My first wish was to go on a vacation somewhere outside the country. My second was to go to Fashion Week in New York. But there are so many possibilities! I decided going to college would be the best thing for me and my family. When I graduate from college, I know I’m going to be able to travel.

I’m going to major in media management. My idea is to be a personal shopper or a retail buyer for chain stores. That’s something I could do forever.

What can you tell us about your family’s support?

I’m an only child. The only other person my mother and father have to care about is a puppy, Odie. If I’m sick and asleep, you’re not getting in my world because he’s going to bark at you until you leave!

I’d just like to tell my parents thank you for everything – even before being diagnosed with cancer. Thank you for guiding me in the right direction and for always giving me positive energy and for letting me know that education and family are always going to be there and be important.

I really just want to make them happy.





Inspired Thoughts

  • My best friend was diagnosed with cancer and I think your wish is amazing. You sound like a smart strong girl. though I dont know you I will support you
    - Alice 12/06/2010 8:21
  • My brother was diagnoise with cancer as well and I have the upmost respect for you and him just seeing what you have to go through while trying to deal with it emotionally. You are a very strong young lady and I wish you well in getting your degree and being the best you can be forever..
    - Tosha 12/15/2010 8:04
  • Great idea! Reminds me of Solomon. 1 Kings 3:9
    - Allison 12/10/2010 13:26
  • Kahla you are an amazing and beautiful girl! I hope you enjoy your time at college and have a very successful life! :)
    - Jacqui 12/29/2010 12:10
  • im so very proud of you,even though i dont know you.i feel like your a blessing to all young and old people struggling with disorders.you show us all that we can overcome anything with a little bit of faith and hard effort.your amazing sweetie,i wish you nothing less than the best of life.
    - carmen 01/11/2011 20:43
  • that's good ur going to college. i know how it feels not going to school i have a niece that has cancer she only 7 years old she wasnt going to school either for a while. but im proud of you
    - patty 01/17/2011 19:23
  • When we read your wish we thought what a wonderful thing to wish for. We completely understand the not going to school b/c our son has not yet returned to school. Our son was recently diagnosed w/a brain tumor and we found out he can make a wish. He's thought of several things, but today he wanted a college scholarship as well. He's entering the 9th grade this fall and is excited to do so.
    - olivia 04/21/2011 20:56

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